As your Coach, Counselor, Consultant, and Guide
Let me Mindfully support you to get to from where you are to where you want to be
Relationships, Deep Change, Leadership, & Creativity
Inspiring you to follow what is Calling you Forward
My life’s work is dedicated to what is possible when we choose to step into our true potential and get out of our own way.
A a Transformational & Relationship-Happiness Coach – I will create a Safe and Inspired Space for you to explore and practice new ways of “showing up” in your life, relationships, work, and the world. I love exploring with you – your inner landscape of possibility.
I will support you:
- To experience your life in a whole new way so that you fully express your deepest passions
- To remove obstacles/beliefs that keep you from creating, being, or living your true essence
- In letting go of patterns of being that don’t serve you anymore
- Together we explore your inner landscape and navigate you towards a whole new way of being
- In creating dynamic inspired relationships with yourself, others,(dating) and those in your organizations
- In increasing your capacities for being able to stay in relationship even when it is challenging
- To take 100% responsibility for your part in the relationship
- In getting clear on whether it is time for you to leave a relationship or to stay
Coaching takes place in my office, over the phone, on-line, in groups, walking, or even on a cross-country ski
My story of life is rich with diversity and possibility.
I spent part of my childhood living in East Africa, Turkey, Sri Lanka, and Spain.
I have studied Human Potential, Coaching, Executive Coaching, Leadership, Organizational Systems-Thinking, NLP, Emotional/Spiritual Intelligence, Yoga, Meditation, Mediation, Creativity, Architecture, Environmental studies, Geography, Landscape Architecture, and Forestry.
I have lived in Bend, Oregon since 1980 as I am a lover of the outdoors, beauty, and nature. Besides Nature I am passionate about
Gardening, Singing, Nordic Skiing, Kayaking, Biking, and Creativity.
INSPIRING TESTIMONIALS ABOUT MARY ELLEN
“I would highly recommend, Mary Ellen, as a Coach. In therapy, i saw no results and it was a waste of time and money in my opinion. ME gave me tools, inspiration, and support to get results fast. I no longer feel frustration, confusion, or doubt when dealing with others. I feel strong, healthy, and responsible for everything in my life. Things that dragged on in confusion/doubt (energy drain) are now resolved quickly/efficiently and with great satisfaction putting me on the road to where I really wanted to be. If your life isn’t a reflection of your heart, move on with confidence, I promise it’s easier than any alternative. Sometimes you just need someone like ME.” Suzanne, Oregon
“I first time I met w/ M.E. was over 11 yrs ago. She had a way of getting to the core that has not been replicated w/ other therapists, counselors, or coaches since. I moved to CA 10 yrs ago and recently had a few phone sessions w/M.E., feeling the need for a tuneup in the way I see relationships and life in general. Even over the phone, I felt her focus as though she were in the room w/me and that there was no escape! But in a good way! She promotes self-forgiveness/love without letting you off the hook, she questions without judgement, and offers the sharpest, clearest insight I have had in my life. The benefits and the work continue beyond a session with M.E..
“Brilliant…Elegant…Breakthrough Artist… describes Mary Ellen (M.E.). If you want to identify what holds you back in life and replace it with powerful, positive, personalized strategies for success, partner with Mary Ellen. Her tool box is immense and she wields the perfect sword at the perfect time to slay your dragons and allow your magnificent self to emerge. I have worked with M.E. for over seven years and find her to be a breathe of fresh air and a grounded confidant in the midst of a changing, spinning world.” Patrice
Mary Ellen is a Coach who seems to always be aware of the most important keys to transformation and self awareness. She is full of life and steadfast with her listening skills. She has a world of knowledge with therapy and always seems to ask the most important key questions to facilitate a healing awareness. I was afraid of therapy in the beginning, and now I know that this is coaching not therapy – Mary Ellen has turned it into a wonderful transformative experience for me. She has helped me articulate emotions into an awareness I never had before. I am very thankful I have her in my life right now…… and I will enjoy this experience with Mary Ellen of truth and honesty about the real world I live in Thanks Mary Ellen Cheers, Grace
I am trained in and utilize many modalities and practices for healing and to support you in tuning into your deepest truth.
Mary Ellen Deckelmann, MA, ABS
Master in Systems Thinking – Organizational Change and Consulting and Executive Coaching
NLP Master Practitioner
Facilitator of Change & Transformation
- Relationship Coaching
- Family Systems Theory
- Organizational Systems Theory
- Neuro-Linguistic Programing (NLP)
- Transformational Leadership
- Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)
- Emotional Intelligence
- Compassionate Communication
- Eckhart Tolle‘s Work
- Present-Centered Communication
- Kripalu Yoga
- The Work
- The Sedona Method
- Awakening Feminine Power
- Success Principles
- Living from the Inside-Out
- Vipassana Meditation